….and still wake up with a hangover to prove you had a good time
New Years Eve is just around the corner. So is all the hype surrounding big parties downtown, high cover charges at clubs, and fighting through crowds just to get the bartender to make you a drink. So underrated is the house party…not the old school, 80s style party you threw when your parents were out of town. (Mine were way too clever for me to ever get away with that.) But the classy, cocktail and finger food party you so enjoy going to at other people’s homes. (I hope one of those people is me!)
You can’t have a party without drinks (you can have a party with cheap drinks, but you’ll pay for it the day after) and good food, now can you? *pointing finger at you. yes, you.* And what’s another few lbs gained just before your new year’s resolution kicks in at the gym on January 1st?!
I’m convinced everyone obsesses about their cocktail party menus as much as I do. What? Are you pretending over there that you don’t?? Don’t judge me…you’re just too shy to admit it! A couple things I always remind myself of, up until the second guests arrive, is that people are coming to spend time with YOU! In my case, Miso, but whatever, I’ll take it. They don’t care about the food, the drinks, the food, or the food. They are coming for the sheer pleasure of your company.
I didn’t say I manage to convince myself of this. Just that I try to repeat it over and again to ease my nerves. So here goes…my tips to a great party:
1. Have one signature cocktail (think mint lemonade plus sweet tea vodka, sangria, blood orange martinis) plus white wine, red wine, beer, and then one or two additional varieties of liquor (vodka, rum) and a mixer for each (pomegranate, coca cola)
2. Prepare a cheese course, in advance. Cheese is best when it’s sat out for at least an hour. Pick cheeses from various milks (cow, sheep, goat), with different textures (triple creme, semi-soft, hard).
3. Prepare a charcuterie board in advance. See above..same general rules apply but get creative with condiments. Cornishons, balsamic onions, spicy mustard, herb butter spread, etc. Don’t be afraid to include smoked salmon either.
4. Have a basket of various breads, crackers, flatbreads, toasts, etc. for the cheese and meat boards.
5. Get creative with the rest…perhaps some grilled or roasted shrimp with 2 different kinds of dipping sauces, served family style in a large platter. Steamed dumplings with an asian dipping sauce, some high quality store bought sushi, mini mac and cheese prepared in muffin tins, heated just before guests arrive. Some spicy mixed nuts are always great and easy to make in advance.
6. Bite sized desserts are a must – and again, can be made in advance. Mini tarts, macarons, eclairs, brownies with salted caramel sauce, cheesecake, you name it. Make a gorgeous platter that’s a combination of homemade and store bought sweets.
7. And finally, the key to an impressive cocktail party…..canapes. Say it with me – [can-a-pays]. Plan to prepare at least one signature canape, and estimate approximately 4 for each guest to enjoy.
Canapes are what the French refer to really cute, bite-sized pop in your mouth tastes of heaven. They can be warm, cold, room temperature, but must always follow these guidelines:
-They must have a base. Think thin slices of french bread, melba toasts, toasted brioche rounds, cucumber slices, puff pastry, etc. This can be cut, toasted, prepared in advance the morning of
-They must have some sort of spread to form as a glue to help the toppings adhere. Mustard, horseradish cream, a cream cheese mousse, butter, you name it. This too can be prepared in advance.
-They must have a topping (thinly sliced smoked salmon, flank steak, roasted red peppers, sauteed mushrooms, shrimp, etc.). Assembly should be within hours of the party.
-They must have a garnish (parsley leaf, chiffonade of basil, chopped chives, dill, paprika, etc.)
And they must enter your mouth for your taste buds to quality test before guests arrive
After all, you don’t want to serve them something you haven’t tasted, right? I tell myself that the first couple tastes are the most important role I play as the chef and hostess.
So here are a few canape ideas…from spicy thai shrimp on shrimp crackers to deviled quail eggs in fillo cups and smoked salmon with creme fraiche mousse on melba toasts.
And as we ring in 2012, I hope each and every reader continues to focus on family, healthy, positive relationships, and finding a way to give back to those around you even if they aren’t doing the same for you. As Ina Garten would say, “How easy was that!”




